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Ms LaVie's Course Catalog

The following is a list of topics for classes and workshops, by category, offered by Ms. LaVie's School of Loving Arts. Classes on these topics are available when at least 5 people express interest and commit to attending one session or a series of sessions. All topics can be adapted for specific groups upon request. In some cases, additional facilitators and speakers are included and/or invited to present.

Ms. LaVie creates a safe, welcoming, and enjoyable atmosphere for each event. Settings for classes and events vary and learning environments can be brought to your location when requested.

If you or your group is interested in experiencing a class or series of classes on any of the topics listed here, contact Candessa Hadsall, aka "Ms. LaVie", at 612-825-0886 or email her at info@mslaviesschool.com

Body-Centered Classes for Individuals

    The Art of Sensual Living

      The difference between sensuality and sexuality
      Creating sensual experiences

    Appreciate Healthy Touch

      Techniques for getting comfortable with touch
      The role of massage
      Explore different kinds of touch

    Sensual Massage for Singles

      Learn ways to feel alive through relaxation, breathing and imagery, and self-massage techniques

    Body Image

      What is meant by "body image"?
      Explore the impact of body image on ones sexuality
      Turn negative images into positive images

    Self-Pleasuring for Women

    Self-Pleasuring for Men

    Pampering the Body and Nourishing the Soul

    Expanding Orgasmic Potential for Women

      Learn about different types of orgasms, multiple orgasms, ejaculation and more
      Breathing techniques for moving energy

    Expanding Orgasmic Potential for Men

      Learn the difference between orgasm and ejaculation
      Breathing techniques for moving energy

    The Art of Seduction for Women

      Express your sensual nature through movement and dance

Body-Centered Classes for Couples

    Tantric Massage for Couples

    Sacred Intimacy Rituals

      Transform ordinary activities into celebrations of love

    Partner Dancing with Passion

      Express your love and joy through music and movement

Sexual Health and Wellness

    Healthy Eating for Body and Soul - Dinner Party

      Share a meal prepared by a professional chef and learn about the effects of a healthy diet on sexuality

    Sexual Fitness

      The value of being sexually fit
      Exercises to enhance sexual abilities
      Kegal exercises for men and women

Sexual Healing

    Get to Know Your Sexual Self - Introductory Class (4 sessions)

      Define sexuality, cultural messages and stereotypes
      Examine personal messages and their affect on sexuality
      Learn more about who you are as a sexual being

    When I love Myself Enough, I will...

      The role of self-esteem in interpersonal relationships
      Sexual self-esteem
      Overcoming an abusive past
      Building self-esteem

    Body Image

      What do we mean by "body image"?
      Explore the impact of body image on ones sexuality
      Turning negative images into positive images

    Healing Sexual Trauma (multiple sessions)

      The effects past abuse can have on self-esteem and relationships
      Steps for addressing and healing old wounds

    Radical Forgiveness for Self and Others

    Learning to Give and Receive Healthy Touch

      Techniques for getting comfortable with touch
      The role of massage

    Addictions and Sex

      Defining addictions
      The origin of addictions
      How addictive behaviors affect relationships

Sex Coaching

    Bring More Sensuality Into Your Life

      The difference between sensuality and sexuality
      Creating sensual experiences

    Living and Loving Passionately in Conservative Times

      Join like-minded people in discussing ways to confront, both individually and as a community, the negative influences in our culture that attempt to discourage and demonize sexual pleasure and passion.
      Learn about radical lovemaking practices that can positively impact and help heal the world
      Build a sex-positive community

    The Art of Flirting

    Playtime - Having Fun with Sex Toys

      The role of sex toys in self-pleasuring and partner relationships
      Exploring different types of sex toys and equipment
      Getting comfortable with sex toys
      Using sex toys safely
      Field trip to Fantasy Gifts, Sex World, Smitten Kitten
      Finding sex toy sites on the web

    "Sex Over 50" OR "Sex Over 60": Keeping the Fire Burning

      Dealing with mid-life issues, changes, and challenges

    Re-entering the Dating Scene For Newly Single People

    The Art of One-Night Stands for Singles

      For those not ready for commitment, how to get sexual needs met in conscious, respectful ways and without shame and guilt

    Sexual Freedom: Design the Sex Life You Want

    The Art of Living Alone and Loving It

    Choosing Celibacy Rather than Settling for It

    The Art of Sensual and Passionate Lovemaking

      Lovemaking skills that enhance any relationship

    Ethics and Boundaries for Managing Multiple Relationships

Relationship Skills

    Healthy Relationships

      Core components
      Clarifying what is important - everyone is different

    Power Dynamics in Relationships

      Understanding power
      Drama triangle and truth telling
      Boundaries
      Misuse of power

    Boundaries

      The importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries

    The Art of Intimacy

      Skills and attitudes that foster deep connections with self and others

    Sensual cooking

      Learn to make sexy meals and treats
      Aphrodisiacs

    Communication Skills In and Out of the Bedroom

      Non-violent, non-judgmental communication
      How to talk so my partner will listen

    Aural Sex: The Art of Listening to My Partner

    Ethics and Boundaries for Managing Multiple Relationships

    Handling the Aftermath of Betrayal

Sexuality and Spirituality

    The Use of Ritual

      Create sacred space and events at home

    Sacred Sexuality: Bringing In Divine Essence

    Introduction to Tantra

      Learn the true meaning of "tantra" and how to connect deeply with your partner
      Experience moving sexual-life force energy using breathing, movement and sound

    Embracing the Heart in Sacred Relationships

      Practice expanding the emotional body to create more passionate connections
      Learn to open your heart and trust more deeply as you honor the Divine Lover in yourself and your partner

    What Men Need to Know about Serving The Goddess

      Men learn the importance of cultivating solo and partner practices that honor, respect and nurture the women in their lives

Self-Empowerment

    Understanding Personal Power

      Assertive vs. aggressive vs. passive
      Owning ones own personal power
      Family of origin issues, values

    Writing Erotica

Expand Your Sexual Intelligence Quotient

    Who Am I Really?

      Use archetypes of gods and goddesses for personal empowerment Astrological influences

    The Importance of Journaling

      Journaling techniques Enhancing ones personal journey

    Exploring sexual values and desires

    Clarifying Sexual Values and Beliefs

      The origins of cultural and individual values and beliefs about sexuality
      How sexuality is affected by ones beliefs and values

    Addictions and Sex

      Defining addictions
      The origin of addictions
      How addictive behaviors affect relationships

    Communication Skills In and Out of the Bedroom

      Non-violent, non-judgmental communication

    Variations in Sexual Behaviors

      Understand the range of possible sexual behaviors including sado-masochism, domination and submission, fetishes, alternative life-styles
      Four Play: group sexual experiences

    What Does It Mean to be a Nudist?

      Presentation by individuals who participate in nudist organizations

    What Is Polyamory and Is It For Me?

      Presentation by individuals involved in simultaneous multiple relationships
      Skills and attitudes important in sustaining healthy multiple relationships
      What is "compersion"?

    Sexual Fantasy

      The role of sexual fantasy in self-pleasuring and relationships

    Understanding Variations in Sexual Orientation

      Homosexuality, bisexuality, heterosexuality, and transsexuality defined
      Assess individual attitudes, values and drives

General Events

    Men Speak

      A safe circle is created for men only to facilitate discussions on various topics related to sexuality and relationships. Led by male facilitator, with possibility of bringing in female facilitator when appropriate and upon request of the group. This can be a one-time event or an on-going group. It must maintain regular attendance of at least 4 men.

    Women Speak

      A safe circle is created for women only to facilitate discussions on various topics related to sexuality and relationships. Facilitated by Ms. LaVie and/or other trained counselors and facilitators knowledgeable about sexual topics. This can be a one-time event or an on-going group. It must maintain regular attendance of at least 4 women.

    Ask Ms. LaVie Anything

Upcoming Classes & Events

Click links for descriptions in the Classes section.

Ecstatic Dance
2nd Saturdays, May 10, Jun 14, Jul 12, Aug 9

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Contact us:
612-825-0886
info@mslaviesschool.com

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